Friday, March 14, 2008

MUST LOVE DOGS

Growing up, we had cats in the household. When I was very young, it was Tia. After she passed away we got Murphy. Murphy had a restless spirit and didn’t stick around for long. Never did we own dogs and, in truth, never did I hold much of an affinity for them. My Opa had dogs while I was growing up, and though I loved his last dog, Brady, cuddling and playing was never something I did.

By the time I was 20 years old, for no reason in particular, I was afraid of dogs. In retrospect, this was probably due to hearing about canine attacks in the news. I had convinced myself that if I got too close to any dog, the same would happen to me. That being said, I avoided all dogs at all costs.

Freaky-Ass Dogs
Photo: This Year’s Love on Flickr

On Boxing Day, 2003 I was still living in the Comox Valley. Our home is in the rural countryside, and the homes on our street are few and far between. I decided to take a snow-filled walk in the silent afternoon, the only audible sound was the snow crunching under foot. As I rounded the corner, I saw a dog sitting in the middle of the road at the top of the street and less than 200 feet in front of me.

Determined to face my fear, I thought my best chance would be to walk a wide circle around the rather large dog, avoid eye contact and pray that he wouldn’t notice me. What a fool I was. I started inching closer…150 feet…100 feet…50 feet. Within the last few yards, the dog stood up and began a slow trot in my immediate direction. “Oh god, I’m toast.” I started to panic on the inside.

As the beast closed in, I began to realize just how large my soon-to-be opponent really was. There was nowhere I could run and nowhere I could hide. The dog was in front of me, up on its hind legs with its paws on my shoulders. I was no match for this animal’s strength and within a split second, found myself pushed backwards into a snowbank; the dog was now on top of me.

And then he started licking my face. All I could do was laugh.

Rowdy and Me

To say this caught me off guard and entirely by surprise is an understatement. After a few moments, I picked myself up out of the snow to learn that I had a new walking companion. The dog, who I soon learned was called Rowdy, lived at a house just up the street and, despite his gargantuan frame, was only a year old. This was a canine who, when standing upright, was taller than me. I’m 5’9”.

And so, this became our routine and Rowdy became my buddy. Each day I’d come home from work to find Rowdy sitting on my doorstep waiting for his walk. Often on weekends, he’d sniff outside my bedroom window and let out a few little barks to beg me to come outside and play. Sadly, his owner spent no time with him and never walked him. This escalated to the point where the man asked me if I’d take over walking duties because he didn’t have the time (or the desire, I expect). Heartbroken at the thought, there was no way I could neglect the task.

He was big and furry and smelly and muddy but I loved him. Above all else, he was entirely loyal and loved me back equally. It was less than half a year later that I moved back to Vancouver. Upon my return visits home, I’d often check for Rowdy but it wasn’t long before he disappeared altogether. I like to think he ran away and found a farm that really wanted him.

Charley

Since that time in my life, nearly five years ago, I have grown to develop an immense love for all dogs. Last year, as many of you know, our family finally adopted a new dog – our first since Brady was put down in 2001. Charley has quickly grown to be an integral part of our family and daily life. She’s perfect with a big fluffy beard, naturally precocious and entirely loving. Charley brought new life to our family’s home.

Benji and Casey

And today, this Friday the 14th, I find myself sitting in my office and entirely restless for the end of the day. As I so often do several times each year, I am taking care of my best friend’s dogs. But in truth, it’s no task at all. There are few things that feel better than walking through the front door after a day at work to find their tiny paws resting on my thighs, aching to be picked up and cuddled. In fact, the only thing that makes me feel more content is waking in the morning to find Casey coiled up in the nook of my arm and Benji playfully pawing at his own face while lying on my chest in an adorable attempt to wake me.

How anyone couldn’t - or wouldn’t – be a dog lover is completely beyond me.

9 Comments
Kat

Awww…we’ll have to see if we can find a pic of Brady. She was such a sweetie. Can’t wait to see you and the puppies next week…we’ll have a house full of dogs!

Jennifer

This is the first time in my life that I haven’t had a dog of my own. Patches passed away two years ago in June at the age of 14 and I, of course, was beyond devastated. I am fortunate to have friends with amazing dogs that I can walk and cuddle and have my face licked by as much as possible. A dog’s love is unconditional and pure. From the moment a dog rouses you to take him for a walk until he curls up warm and contented with you at bedtime, dogs bring such joy into our harried lives. They are indeed amazing creatures.

“A dog has the soul of a philosopher.”
— Plato

Pamela

Ever since my boyfriend bought a dog in December, I’ve been in love! I can’t imagine a day where he’s not sitting in my lap while I’m getting ready in the morning (this may change once he’s full grown haha he’s a golden retriever) or when I come home and he’s super excited to see me and he just can’t tell me how much with kisses. They do know how to make a person feel great!

PatZ

what if, say, someone didn’t mind small dogs but large dogs are still Cujo in their mind? Does that count for dog lover? Cause there’s like, the small half of them in there…

Amy

I’m writing this comment after only reading the first two lines so I may need to comment again when I read the rest of the post, but I just had to point out:

You had a cat named Tia. I have a cat named Tia.
You have a girl animal named Charley, I have a girl animal named Charlie.

…..whoop whoop!

Eduardo

Dogs are the best company you could ever get, they get to know you even better than your family in a very short period of time, i guess its all because of their sixth sense. Im a dog lover, i’ve only had two dogs in my entire life and i can say they are both the best. I you have a chance take a look at them :
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Keira-Anne

Eduardo, your dogs are gorgeous! I love pups!

Eva

Awww! So sweet! I wish I could have a dog, but it wouldn’t be fair to them if I’m at work all day. It just wouldn’t be fair. In the meantime, I’ve got 2 cats. But one day, I’d like to have a dog.

Charley is quickly growing up! And Benji and Casey are in very good hands. I’m a little envious of folks with dogs. :)

Take care!

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